So we bought a new van. It's actually a Mazada 5 which is a microvan but it's so much larger than our Honda. It's 1000xeasier to put Jones into his seat. And it gets better gas mileage than a larger van would. If we need to for long distance trips we'll just rent a larger van. We love it so far and it's much more family friendly. Anyhow crossed #3 off the list with this purchase.